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Caregiver Tip Sheets
Paranoia
People with Alzheimer’s or dementia may become suspicious and
frightened, even of those who love and care for them. Their world
can seem strange and confusing, leading them to accuse others
of stealing or lying. Don’t take this personally; it is a common
behavior.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
BE COMFORTING
• stay calm and use a gentle voice
• don’t argue… the situation is very real to them
• let them know they are safe and everything is okay
WHY DOES • hold their hand or give a hug (if they don’t mind being touched)
THIS HAPPEN? TRY DISTRACTION
• offer a favorite food to eat or activity to do
People with Alzheimer’s or
dementia might: • help look for missing items and talk with them about items you
find along the way such as photos, objects around the house,
• lose an item and think it books, etc.
was stolen • take them outside for a walk or to a different room
• forget something told to • talk about something important to them (family, music, hobbies)
them and when re-told,
think it’s a lie MAKE THE ENVIRONMENT CALM AND FAMILIAR
• keep extra items that are often lost like wallets, keys, jewelry
• feel a spouse is treating
them differently and • keep their space quiet and calm
believe it’s because of • surround them with things they remember and cherish
an affair • turn off the TV or radio if a show or the news are upsetting
• re-introduce yourself and others as often as needed
• be unable to tell what is
real and what is not • play music from the past that has good memories
OTHER TIPS
• keep notes to describe the paranoia and share with the doctor
• have legal papers to show police the person’s diagnosis, your
relationship, power of attorney, etc.
844.HELP. ALZ
AlzheimersLA.org • join a support group or find a friend where you can talk openly
© 2018 Alzheimer’s Los Angeles about your feelings and frustrations
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• remember that sometimes items really do get stolen
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